The Confidence Styler 

 

You currently find yourself on the edge of a high cliff. Wind is blowing hair in your face. Your mind gets dizzy when you look at the drop below you. You know what you have come here to do. Despite the fact it has taken all of your strength to get this far, something is stopping you from taking that final step. 

FEAR, SELF-DOUBT, ANXIETY, FAILURE, THE UNKNOWN, takes over you

And then the moment passes. You have missed your opportunity. Again. And life continues.  

Whilst, only an analogy, this is how many women feel when it comes to making a decision, a change, or taking action in their lives, career or business.

Despite having more credentials, skills, knowledge, ability and talent than ever before. Women appear to be lacking one simple ingredient that has the potential to change everything and that is ....

 

Confidence

Imagine if you could;

  • Wake up every morning excited to start the day knowing you are living your purpose
  • Trust yourself to be the expert so that you can stand out from the crowd
  • Raise your prices regularly so that you’re working with clients who appreciate and value your services
  • No longer fear failure or rejection, because your end goal and outcome is a non-negotiable and therefore guaranteed
  • No longer be crippled by perfectionism so that you can take imperfect action daily meaning you can show up to your community no matter what with confidence
  • Implement simple and effective marketing strategies so you can grow a loyal and engaged following turning raving fans into paid clients
  • Be requested to speak at events or joint ventures, creating organic and free growth for your business

I can help you get there 

 

Hi, my name is Cindy Benbow and I am a certified Divine Living Transformational Coach.

In 2016, I coached a wide range of women. From accomplished business owners, high flying career women to compassionate stay-at-home mums, I couldn't help but notice something. All of these women had one thing in common. They each lacked and struggled with confidence.    

This led me on a mission to create and deliver a program that went to the very heart of what confidence is.

After all, if you do not understand something, how can you ever be expected to embody it?

I felt that I could no longer sit back and watch so many amazing women holding themselves back in life. Questioning their worth, ability, knowledge and skill. Wasting weeks, months and sometimes even years. 

Let me ask you how many times have YOu ... ? 

 
  • Accepted the opinion or view of another, even when you don’t agree with it
  • Not spoken up at that meeting or client pitch, in fear of sounding too pushy or “salesy”  
  • Not put yourself out as the expert in fear you don’t know enough
  • Lowered your prices for your services during a sales conversation
  •  Allowed opinions of others to dictate or direct your next business or career move
  • Been overlooked for a promotion or pay review
  • Compared your journey to others in your industry feeling inadequate and insufficient
  • Passed up speaking events because of a fear of speaking publicly despite knowing this will grow your business
  • Reworked every piece of content, only to trash it, believing it not to be good enough
  • Apologised even when you know it hasn’t been your fault
  • Say “yes” to things even when you really mean “no”
  • Believed that a rejection must define who you are and that you don’t really have it takes to get your business or career off the ground
  • Tried and failed at something and are now too scared to try again
 

IT'S TIME TO Strive for progress and not perfection

“Emotional intelligence, empathy and a real touch of sincerity make Cindy a great life/career coach.   She has provided an excellent insight to help me understand my own behaviors and drivers and how those have shaped my career to date.  She has provided me great feedback, resources and a solid action plan to align myself with my goals and aspirations.  She is a natural, a great human being and I highly recommend working with her.”

Sam, United Kingdom

I believe that Confidence is based upon five core pillars which I teach to each of my clients.

These are Self-belief, Risk Taking Action, Persistent and Targeted Effort, the Acceptance of Failure, and most importantly the Ability to Try Again.

 

Self-Belief

  • Identify what is blocking you from currently taking action in your business or life
  • Replacing any limiting beliefs with a set of new beliefs that better serve you
  • Learn how to overcome an anxious mind
  • Switch off from the constant mind chatter
  • Learn when to apply blinkers to keep you out of comparison mode

 

Risk Taking Action

  • Identify what action is necessary to move your business and life forward
  • Create weekly and daily action plans setting you up for success over the 90 days of working together
  • Letting go of perfectionism for good
  • Learning how to overcome mistakes and errors whilst maintaining credibility
  • Learn how to use fear to motivate you and move you forward

 

Persistent & Targeted Effort

  • Create a simplified business or career strategy which focuses on growth and progression
  • Gain certainty around what you should be focusing on
  • Learn how to measure your growth and progression to remain focused and motivated
  • Master the art of time management and power scheduling
  • Articulate the art of authentic communication and story telling

 

Acceptance of Failure

  • Understand what failure really means (and it’s not what you think)
  • Learn the importance of failing lots and quickly
  • Remove any fear of failure
  • Identify the necessary lessons from the actions points
  • Master the ability to course correct 

 

Ability to Try Again

  • How to embrace failure as part of your overall path to confidence
  • Discover why failure can actually drive you closer to your goals 
  • Redefine what failure is and understand how failure can actually increase your confidence
  • Use any failure to go out bigger and better next time
  • Set the mind up for success over failure

 

PROGRAM STRUCTURE AND WHAT’S INCLUDED

Your 1-2-1 Private Coaching Program will include the following:

  1. Complimentary 45 minute discovery call to ensure we are the best fit. 
  2. Welcome & Orientation Pack, so you can start seeing changes even before our first session together! 
  3. 90-minute Deep Dive Intensive call
  4. 11, 60-minute Coaching Calls. 
  5. Unlimited email access to me throughout our time of working together. 
  6. Resources such as articles, podcasts and book recommendations as appropriate

INVESTMENT in full £4000

“I think with a business or if you are thinking of starting one, you have a million ideas in your head.  I certainly did! Having a coach like Cindy helps you make sense of them and gets you to see the potential in the more important ones. Then she gets to work focusing on your needs and helps you see what you can truly do and achieve and has a calming influence.  It’s always good to bounce things back with a great listening Coach like Cindy. You then have the wonderful advantage of really taking things to the next level that you would never have achieved and even possibly taking you down a different path that you would never have thought of.”  

Simonette, United Kingdom

‘’I really enjoyed my discussions with Cindy. She immediately put me at ease and helped me to order my thoughts and confront some decisions and challenges I was finding difficult to tackle. I also recognised some things about myself that helped me change thought patterns that have held me back for years. I particularly appreciated the way in which Cindy would also ensure that I benefitted fully from the sessions by sending follow-up notes and action points, and recommending books and articles. I have come away from my time with Cindy with a plan, and I am excited about the challenges ahead rather than in fear of them. I would wholeheartedly recommend working with Cindy – it’s a decision I’m so thankful to have made.’’  

Elena, United Kingdom
 
 

WHY ME?  

In a sea of coaches, why should you choose me to become your Coach? I have 5 simple answers for you:  

  1. I keep things simple - My programs are based on simple and authentic strategies which not only stick but work. No more overcomplicating things.
  2. I have the experience - I have 15 years corporate experience where I negotiated contracts, led teams and projects. By the age of 28 I was a ‘6 figure problem solver’. I'm a qualified Yoga Teacher,  certified Health Coach and one of 200 worldwide Divine Living Certified Coaches. 
  3. I believe the only way we grow is to keep moving - I have always believed that the only way we can grow is to move forward. Confidence is created from action, and action comes from movement. 
  4. I am willing to go the distance - I am not scared to go deep with you on any issue that could be holding you back from creating your ideal life or business.  
  5. I make it my business to hire the best - I have my own coaches and to date have invested more than £30,000 in my own self-development journey over the last 3 years. 
 

 

Love Notes

FROM MY AMAZING CLIENTS!

Cindy is an amazing force of guidance and empowerment. I worked with Cindy at a crossroads in the beginning of my business. I knew I was ready for BIG things and I had many important decisions to make rather quickly. With her coaching, I was able to release decades worth of self limiting beliefs which allowed me to fully step into my power as a woman and as entrepreneur. I was able to make important decisions that propelled my business towards the direction of growth. Cindy came from a corporate background and fully understood my mission and drive to pursuing a meaningful and successful career. She is an incredibly gifted coach, and I am so thankful for her guidance and support. I highly recommend working with her!
— Kim De Los Reyes, United States of America
I reached out to Cindy whilst doing some groundwork in terms of future business ideas. I was a little bit unclear on the direction I was going to pursue and nothing had really been started as yet. The session delivered a lot of value and I appreciated the way Cindy sought context without getting too stuck in the details. She was super efficient and helped me with strategies to tackle my biggest hurdles, all the while being reassuring, friendly, professional and resourceful. I walked away from our very first session with a lot more clarity on the path ahead. It is great to come away from a session feeling confident and also that someone believed in me and that I could do this!
— Sian Cannell, South Africa
I’ve only had one coaching session with Cindy so far - but it was EXACTLY what I needed to give me the confidence to start investing in ME again. After becoming a mum I lost all faith in myself as a career woman - even though I’ve always been successful and ambitious. I was struggling to motivate myself and was stuck in a cycle of negative thoughts. Cindy helped me to recognise that, on the contrary, I was already achieving great things every day. She also suggested daily mantras and routines to help keep myself buoyant and positive. Since speaking to Cindy I’ve lined up lots more work and new opportunities. My mindset is no longer “can I do this?” but “of course I can do this!” Thank you Cindy. Everyone needs a Cindy in their lives!
— Charlie O’Brien, United Kingdom
In short, Cindy has helped me change my life for the better. As a first time mum returning to work, I felt a little overwhelmed to say the least. Cindy helped me focus on the bigger picture, align my goals and take the steps towards achieving them. Sometimes the things you need to do are right before your eyes but you just need the clarity to see them. Cindy’s calming and compassionate nature helped me to open up to the real obstacles in my life. She asks the key questions necessary to break some very old barriers. At times, I felt that I nothing more to discuss with Cindy’s gentle probing, she proved me wrong and before long we were tackling some very important issues. She didn’t stop there and has even had a huge impact on my husband’s lifestyle too (who was adamant he didn’t “do” coaching!). I can’t recommend her enough.
— Melinda Ayoubi, United Kingdom
From the very first session working with Cindy has been a rewarding and enjoyable experience, helping me to re-evaluate what is important in life and how to move forward in achieving my goals. It is so easy to become stuck in a rut and even if we are aware that it is happening, it is not always clear why... Cindy is able to really get to the heart of the issue and to recommend achievable, positive actions to help move forward, all delivered in her trademark calm and positive way. Before I knew it I had committed to new behaviors and to following a healthier lifestyle, which little by little have made a big difference. I was definitely surprised by how much I enjoyed our sessions -  hearing about her own life lessons and experiences made her guidance more relevant. In short if you are ever wavering about whether a life coach is what you need, just try a session with Cindy and you will wonder how you ever managed without!
— Caroline Williams, United Kingdom
Cindy’s coaching has been extremely useful for giving me a different way of thinking and approaching work and my personal life. Her coaching has taught me how to use the qualities that I already possess in order to work through my issues and to think more strategically about my life choices. Because of this I have become a more positive person, I feel empowered to confidently make big decisions in both my work and my personal life, and I am happier with myself.
— Chris Mortin, United Kingdom
Cindy is empathetic, a great listener and made me feel at east without being judgmental. As a crossroads in my life, Cindy helped guide me towards being a happier and more confident version of myself. A mixture of changes incorporated into my daily routine along with formulating my own changes whilst helping to keep me focused and showing positivity and a caring nature throughout. It’s like I had all the jigsaw pieces and Cindy helped provide me with the vision to work towards the end puzzle by guiding me piece by piece … Leaving me with the confidence to attempt the next puzzle on my own.
— Edel Mather, United Kingdom